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The princess and the other frog.

Published
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I Am
on March 7, 2010
in Life
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Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess. She found a frog who was unlike any other. He was charming, he walked with a confident air, wore fancy clothes, and he had nice shiny shoes. The frog explained that he was a prince who was turned into a frog by an evil witch, and that a kiss would set him free.

The princess believed him and gave him a kiss. Nothing happened. The frog persuaded her that the magic was strong and it would require a great loving kiss in order to set him free. Again, she believed him and, more importantly, she wanted to believe.

Over time the princess gave the frog many kisses from her heart (and a number of blowjobs to match) and each time she felt a little disappointed afterwards, and each time the charming frog persuaded her that things would get better.

The princess fell in love with the frog and they ended up getting married. Not because of what they had but because she believed what he said, she believed in ‘their future’.

They had tadpoles together which grew up to be very charming frogs. The princess adopted a frog suit so that she could fit in with her husband’s family and their community. She loved him so much that she would do anything for him. He had won her heart.

The moral of this story: It doesn’t matter how well he presents himself or how hard you wish things to be different - the truth of the matter is that he’s a frog. And if you don’t realize this sooner rather than later then you’ll end up as one too.

Don’t be so negative!

Published
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I Am
on February 23, 2010
in L&L, Life and Toolbox
. 5 Comments

A little something for you to stew on. Imagine three people who are all giving (and receiving) positively. Let’s picture them thusly:

+1 +1 +1 = 3

Now let’s imagine a similar scenario where one of the three people is negative and is taking but not contributing anything. Perhaps they don’t think they need to contribute, perhaps they are self-absorbed, they may not care at all.

+1 -1 +1 = 1

See the difference just one negative person can make to the final outcome? The other two people would have to double their efforts in order to achieve the same outcome as if the negative person was giving normally. And that is what happens when just one negative person is allowed within a chain.

With that in mind take a good look at the networks of people in your life. Look at all the extra workload which is generated by negative people who are not giving as they should be. When just one person is negative then everybody else they are connected to has to pay the price and carry the extra burden.

It’s easy to become distracted by reasons, ideas, justification, et cetera. The important thing is to stop wasting resources feeding the negativity and instead to have each person playing their positive part. When every single person takes the responsibility then the end result is much better with less stress.

Work smarter, not harder!

Happiness?

Published
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I Am
on February 7, 2010
in Darkness and Life
. 3 Comments

“Boredom.  Man finds nothing so intolerable as to be in a state of complete rest, without passions, without occupation, without diversion, without effort. Then he faces his nullity, loneliness, inadequacy, dependence, helplessness, emptiness. And at once there wells up from the depths of his soul boredom, gloom, depression, chagrin, resentment, despair.

Continue reading ‘Happiness?’

I doubt that.

Published
by
I Am
on November 14, 2009
in Finish it!, Healing, Life and The Basics
. 1 Comment

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Doubts get a bad rap, they tend to be  seen as negative. Well, yes, they certainly have a negative side, but then so does everything. So long as we soley focus on the negative then we tend to make ourselves more negative.

I believe everything has a positive and a negative aspect.  Let’s take doubt as an example.

Continue reading ‘I doubt that.’

Freedom

Published
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Flora
on February 23, 2009
in Life
. 120 Comments

My five years old daughter was sitting behind me in the car as I was driving and she sank into her thoughts and than said: 

You know something mommy, I´ll tell you what!
If we do all our homework, we will be free!

It cought my attention…

It´simple,
clear,
deep,
and true.

All we got to do…

Published
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Flora
on January 30, 2009
in Life
. 237 Comments

:)

Hugh Laurie (aka Dr. House) 20 years ago!

Incubation

Published
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Flora
on January 16, 2009
in Healing and Life
. 311 Comments

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Day and night, breathing in and breathing out, sleeping and being awake.We live by rhythm and cyclical repetitions and as our attitude at time is positive, other times it´s negative, and as we are happy so are we other times sad. Light and shadow goes on existing side by side, and we tap in and around them from time to time.
Many times we are using the term depression for just about ANY situation when we’re tapping into shady places. I found a new term for a recent state I have been in lately. I call it “incubation”. It’s a state where I long to be in a small safe warm dark place, and just be there. Where I don’t have to think, where don’t have to act, where I don’t have to do any role, where I got no obligations, no consciousness, no guilt, no regrets. Where I´m not forced to a show that supposedly must go on.and on. Fact is: the show goes on anyway. With - or without me. This state is mainly not about the “show” but about me.

Continue reading ‘Incubation’

Does anyone remember?

Published
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Flora
on January 10, 2009
in Earth and Life
. 281 Comments

It´s amazing what a strong apocaliptical consciousness we have…
Even though there are rather questions than answers, there are some new movies that appear recently to demonstrate and underline, that “something´s going on”. It is also amazing to me how we just go on with that knowledge, accepting it. Just like that. Oh yeah the world is so bad, people are so and so, oh well… Lets forget about it and go on with our lives like before.

“The movie was unrealistic anyway”

I see it different. Continue reading ‘Does anyone remember?’

nekorb

Published
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Flora
on December 2, 2008
in Life
. 234 Comments

Will I ever learn

Published
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Flora
on December 2, 2008
in Life
. 298 Comments

Would it be so bad for my heart to break in two
Were it like a child´s forever streight and cruel
I´ve never tried to see what it means to me

Will I ever learn, will I ever learn
With my lucky charms, my dreams have all come true
Where I left myself, somewhere if I only knew
I´ve never tried to much, found no line of trust

Will I ever learn, will I ever learn
Hold on, hold on we never do
leaving doubts, ringing out and falling through
Hold on, hold on, rescued and freed
I wanna race, I wanna place, I wanna be

Were I like a page, a script of many souls
It would ease my mind and let me choose my road
And every single theme would take a load of me
If I´d only learn, if I could only learn

Where this story goes is written in the dark
Living off the luck and reaching out too far
And at the very end I´d read it all again
Cause I never learn, cause I never learn

Hold on, hold on we never do
leaving doubts, ringing out and falling through
Hold on, hold on rescued and freed
I wanna race, I wanna place
I wanna be

Hold on, hold on we never do
leaving doubts, ringing out and falling through
Hold on, hold on rescued and freed
I wanna race, I wanna place
I wanna be
I wanna race,
I wanna place
I wanna
be